Tuesday, April 26, 2005

________ is the space to the left of this caption , love?

'love' is an over hyped thing.has been, is, will be..at least to me.but am i convinced?thats something i could scratch my head over my entire life but would probably die not knowing the answer.its obviously a process which people christened with a name and then probably also set a few rules to the process, which people firmly believe in.Those rules would probably go like this:
  • Meeting the person and finding a compatibility that u have never found with anyone else
  • Catch up everyday (mandatory), go for a coffee/pub/disc/food/whatever
  • Eventually see each other everyday that u think only about him/her in ur daily activities(this may include eat,sleep,going to the loo,work,read(here apparently the 'loved one's' face would appear magically between the words, just like the same face would appear on the toilet paper i guess!!))
  • Love is apparently confirmed when ur life stops when u even imagine its existence without him/her in it!
  • You will thus go to any bounds to keep it going to eventually get married/produce babies/bond with in-laws family/go to the shop together holding each other's hands/flutter ur eyelashes at each other as well
Tell me, does any of the above make any sense to u?but my friend, people around the world are convinced that if all the above rules are satisfied, its love!is it not rather a state of loneliness, a pocket in ur brain and heart that demands that u fill it up with a person simply cause the notion of 'love' has been created and thus u HAVE to live upto it?tell me, how are u so sure that this is the perfect person...have u met all the people in the world?then is it not the same as settling for someone that u think is the perfect match simply cause u may have never met someone as perfect as that person till that time?and that , that is a very relative thing..cause for all u know, i may have never known anyone remotely interesting/witty/humorous/caring!!just cause u find some one quality in that person that seems endearing to u, does that mean thats the perfect person?
Now comes the point of perfect person...do u think ur perfect to judge whether anyone is perfect for u?u may have a thousand flaws and yet u sit around thinking ur god's gift to mankind..and that u can sift through the gazziliion people that enter ur life and tick them off to find out who is the 'best fit'?!!!so finally my friends, im tired of thinking about this concept cause i think its non existent and complicated and screwed up...and thus does not exist.

9 Comments:

At 1:12 AM, Blogger The HIGHlight Reel said...

u mean i have go n meet the same GAL everyday to b in LOVE.......sssseeeessshhhhh woman...

 
At 1:38 AM, Blogger Vandana said...

i did not say that u nut case, thats what people in general think ;).just a friendly tip, if u intend otherwise in a relationship u can expect a black eye from ur girlfriend :)

 
At 7:19 AM, Blogger Anup said...

Probably my first comment here. I liked the post. Very deep....excellent thoughts....great flow!! What's happened to you ;)
Anyhoo, methinks you are right about the black eye. Add a pair of aching bollocks to the list too.

 
At 2:27 AM, Blogger Vandana said...

anup...what black eye whereeee???bollocks is a rather good addition!deep thoughts are a waste of timecanup, which is why i dont bother most of the time ;)!

 
At 8:04 AM, Blogger Archana said...

Gosh.....I 've never tried to understand what love is!!Its way too intricate for me. Anyways....all the above things would not be "LOVE" and I couldnot agree with you better!

 
At 11:06 AM, Blogger ramsoi said...

Wake up Wake up blog maadi!

 
At 4:27 PM, Blogger ShivA said...

I definitely dont think there is a perfect person, or a perfect match for everyone...people just grow eachother after a while with some basic qualities to start with...its just a journey to be in love...you are bound to get off that train anytime and you have to work on it to stay in love...so that being said you can fall in love many times....ppl, like you mentioned, are just naive and definitely not matured....I am glad you are...take care girl...

- ShivA

 
At 1:21 AM, Blogger Swaroop C H said...

"Love is caring for an imperfect person perfectly"

.. or something like that :))

Swaroop
www.swaroopch.info

 
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